Have we ever noticed that we behave with people around us on the basis of the relation we are living with.. Instead do we try to see them as a soul?
When we live our life and play fully being ‘Non attached’ (i.e – where we no longer cling to how things to be) to someone rather than being ‘Detach’ (i.e – Where we just give up entirely), we try to understand their roots of behaviour and that will help you dive into their journey and make you realize the reason of their behaviour in intense situations.
When we say “Don’t judge a book by its cover”…Similarly ‘Don’t tag a person as bad or good on the basis of their traits’.
Each one of us has our inner ‘Circle of Control’. As we say we can’t control Nature, than why we try to control any human? Thus someone’s wrong behaviour is not in our ‘Circle of control’. But how you behave is in your ‘Circle of Control’.
The reason of wrong behaviour or moves might be due to Racial consciousness or Emotional Contagion or Compulsive behaviour and addiction…
So try consciously to play fully being ‘Non-Attach’ than to being ‘Detach’ i.e To Remove the Role tag from the relations you think you are holding with them and try not to expect them to behave in that certain way which you wanted them to be. And that is my Mantra of ‘Happiness’.